![]() ![]() Dommes want to work with clients who understand the profession and its limits. Los Angeles-based domme Mistress Mina Mercury gets annoyed when men don't do their research. "But generally we have a pretty good profile of our client before we even meet them the first time." There *are* boundaries-and dommes expect clients to know them "There are survival sex workers who can't afford to do full screenings or turn down paid work the way that non-survival sex workers can," Shakti explained of women in more desperate situations, sometimes facing homelessness. Safety is paramount-and there are risks-but the pro-dommes we spoke with all said they've had fewer issues than laypeople might expect, thanks to the aforementioned systems. (Image credit: Photo Illustration Betsy Farrell) In fact, many dommes use programs that allow them to ID and review clients, reporting no-shows, no-pays, or safety violations. So when a guy is interested in a very specific service-like pet play (when the submissive wants to act like a puppy or some other animal) or something more extreme-that a domme does not offer, she'll refer him to another domme who does. "Our community is pretty small and we all try and keep each other safe," Shakti says. When a fetish goes too far, there's a backup plan I'm selling my skills and my personality, as well. While that's something that I'm selling, that's not the only thing that's on the table. ![]() "I don't want to be around that kind of person that sees me purely as a sexual object. Another red flag for Black is when men are overly graphic from the get-go. Pro-dommes want clients that respect them as individuals, not just employees. ![]() If they start spouting off some intricate deep fantasy with you, there is little chance you're going to actually meet that person because they're entrenched in the realm of fantasy." "I call them dick-handling emails because they're literally jerking off when writing it-which is fine, but they're also wasting my time. "I can spot when someone is not serious about my time," says Miss Erin Black, a Chicago-based dominatrix and escort. It's not just about compatibility or even safety, it's as simple as basic business courtesy. ![]()
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